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“Could It Really Be That Easy To Recognize Attraction Signals Most Men Will Never See That Reveal How To Get The Girl Every Time And Develop A Masculine Presence So Strong That It Makes Your Physical Appearance Irrelevant And Compels Her To Want To Be With You - And Only You?”
The Answer Is Yes And If You’re Ready To Stop Your Ego From Stifling Your Masculine Presence, Learn How To Get Outside Your Head, And Start Recognizing The Attraction Signals That Tell You How To Get The Girl Every Time, Keep Reading…
Author of “Real World Seduction”
Man-to-man, I want you to answer these questions honestly…
Have you ever failed to approach a woman you’d like to meet because…
You couldn’t think of anything to say or what popped into your head felt like the wrong thing to say?
You thought she was out of your league?
You believed you didn’t have a chance with her?
You sized up your competition and thought you didn’t have a chance against them?
You asked yourself, “Why would she go for me?”
You were riddled with fear and anxiety?
An unexplainable block prevented you from doing it?
You told yourself some lame excuse to avoid talking to her, such as, “I’ll approach her later on,” “she’s busy right now,” “she’s in the middle of a conversation with her girlfriend,” “she probably has a boyfriend,” or “I’ll just have one more drink before going in”?
You thought she’d embarrass or reject you?
Have you ever approached a woman and…
She ignored you?
She shut you down?
She thought you were weird or cheesy?
Said a canned pick up line that didn’t go over well?
Said the wrong thing?
Has a woman’s negative response to you approaching her ever left you feeling rejected, inadequate, or angry?
Have you ever been talking to a woman and…
The conversation came to a lull and you didn’t know what to say next?
You got upset because she kept interrupting you, wasn’t listening to you, or didn’t laugh at your jokes?
You had an unsettling feeling that she was just being polite and wanted to escape ASAP?
She said something that made you feel emasculated?
You sensed she wasn’t attracted to you?
Have you ever liked a girl and…
You grew frustrated because she failed to see you as a better catch than the losers she goes for?
You felt you couldn’t compete with your better looking, smarter, or funnier friend?
A guy swooped in, took her from you, and left you feeling frustrated, inadequate, or jealous?
She showered another guy with attention, giggled at everything he said, and ignored you?
If yes, did you feel angry or think you lacked something he had?
You kept asking her out but she kept flaking on you or making excuses why she couldn’t get together.
She wouldn’t return your phone calls?
You didn’t know how to make a move on her.
When you made a move on her, it went over awkward, she pushed you away, and you got angry at her or felt a little pathetic or unattractive?
She liked you back. But because you couldn’t recognize her attraction signals, you lost your chance with her?
If you answered YES to any of these questions…
You’ve taken a big step to improving your success with women and have leg up on other guys.
Many of these questions are quite personal. I get it.
Even though every heterosexual male on the planet has experienced at least some of these things, most are too embarrassed to admit any of them.
But by you coming clean and telling the truth, you can address your issues and begin to fix them.
In fact, I created these questions from my own personal experiences with women. Along my journey I’ve experienced every single one multiple times.
To be brutally honest with you…
Many of these things aren’t a figment of your imagination. They’re firmly grounded in reality…
To demonstrate this, I want you to imagine a semicircle of gentlemen suitors hovering around a perfect 10.
Each one orbits her by showing off his most impressive traits the best he can.
After twenty minutes or so, a hierarchy forms in her mind.
The one at the top of the heap is the winner - the one she chooses.
Everyone else feels disappointed that they didn’t get her.
One guy slumps away feeling like an inadequate half-a-man.
Another lashes out at her with, “You stuck up bitch.”
To be honest…
This can be a harrowing experience.
Unless You’re Better Looking, Funnier, Richer, & More Interesting & Engaging Than Your Competition, You’re Shit Out Of Luck.
And it gets worse…
The guy she chose may not be the winner for much longer. All his fantasies about kissing, doing the nasty, or even dating her may come to a crippling end.
If a more awesome dude comes into the picture, he may quickly replace him. Knock him out of the number one slot. And get the girl.
Conventional Courtship Is Survival Of The Fittest At Its Most Frightening…
With the advent of online dating, things couldn’t be worse…
Women can choose from a pool of infinite mates offering up their penis on a platter.
They have the luxury of keeping their options open and waiting around for Mr. More-Awesome-Than-You.
That’s why so many men end up settling for mediocre women - that’s all they can get.
But Things Don’t Have To Be This Way…
There’s another path. One that circumvents all the bullshit. One that a few lucky men follow - and I’m NOT talkin’ about celibate monks.
These are Take Charge Males. Often these men aren’t the best looking, richest, smartest, funniest, or most interesting suitors a woman has.
Sometimes they don’t even remotely resemble her “type.”
In The End, A Woman Will Always End Up Going For The Take-Charge Male Over Everyone Else…
While most men orbit around a woman, showing off their most impressive traits to the best of their ability, catering to her every whim, and hoping that she chooses them, some men play the game in reverse.
The Take-Charge Male Makes The Woman Orbit Him…
He Becomes Her Sole Source Of Validation & She Wants Nothing More Than To Please Him…
Instead of placing him on her totem pole of value, she worries where she fits on his.
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How does he do this?
Years Ago, I Noticed That Every So Often Something Felt Different About My Interactions With Women.
By this point, I already knew how to create enough attraction that I could make out with and take home the women I wanted.
But this was different:
These women would tell me, “I’ve never felt this way towards a guy before. What are you doing to me?”
“You’re not even my type and I hardly know you but you’re making me all hot and bothered.”
“You definitely GET women.”
This was after knowing them only a few short minutes.
After knowing them only a few short days, they’d say things like, “I cannot stop thinking about you.”
“I couldn’t concentrate at work because you were on my mind all day.”
“I couldn’t imagine being with any other guy besides you.”
“I was smitten with you from the moment I met you.”
“I know you’re the one.”
“I know you’re not the ‘settling-down’ type and I’m
not either. But you’re the first man I’ve ever thought
about marrying. Am I some kind of creep for saying this?”
“All I think about is making you happy.”
By the way, these women weren’t donkeys or wildebeests - that kinda response is to be expected from a less than attractive woman.
They were hot - really hot.
And I didn’t take the “Nice Guy” rout and pretend to be their girlfriend with a penis.
I slept with all of these women almost immediately after meeting them. In fact, two of girls I bedded in under 20 minutes.
But to be honest…
I thought destiny struck and for some twisted reason I happened to closely match their ideal type.
Sometimes I was more realistic and chalked it up to them being psychos.
But then it started happening with woman after woman after woman.
I realized I couldn’t be that many women’s type - I’m an average looking guy who’s a little on the short side.
And it was beyond me to believe that many women were crazy.
And then it donned on me…
It Wasn’t Them But Me: I Was Doing Something Different…
Something that a few lucky guys do on a regular basis but don’t know how they do it.
Something that maybe you’ve even done before.
Unfortunately, I didn’t completely understand what I was doing either and didn’t know how to trigger it at will - it just kinda happened.
So I Set Out On A Five Year Odyssey To Unearth This Rare Form Of Attraction…
With the zeal of a monomaniacal madman, I almost killed myself hunting down an answer.
I spent almost every waking moment with a girl or picking up a new one. My game had reached a pinnacle. My instincts with women quickened to the speed of a whip. And my life resembled Hank Moody’s from Californication - it became a real freak show.
But I Still Didn’t Know Why Or How I Emotionally Drove Women To Line Up Around The Block To Please Me…
And then something terrible happened…
I had a stupid accident (that’s a story for another time) and broke my leg.
I spent the next several months in almost complete isolation.
I read a lot - I mean a lot - and thought a ton about all my experiences with women into the wee hours of many a morning.
While I superficially understood how I got these women….
I Sensed Something Deeper Lurked Below The Surface - Something Much More Powerful…
But every time I’d attempt to wrap my clutches around it, it slipped away.
After a painful day of physical therapy, I created a diversion that took my mind off the throbbing leg and solitude.
The game was simple. I suspended my beliefs and experimented with seeing things from different perspectives. Such as imagining that the earth was flat and orbits the moon.
Sooner than later, I found myself applying this game to seduction.
And it hit me… light dawned on the whole… I saw it in plain view…
The hidden mechanism behind why I had such a powerful effect on women.
What Is The Secret Mechanism That Eliminates Your Competition, Turns You Into Her Sole Source Of Validation, & Leaves Her Wanting Nothing More Than To Please You?
How Do You Trigger Polarity Attraction?
Polarity attraction isn’t triggered by being a woman’s type.
It isn’t triggered by having a large bank account, a high status job, or driving a sports car.
It isn’t triggered by incessantly complimenting a woman, insulting her, or spending money on her.
It isn’t triggered by making a woman laugh or charming her.
Even acting like the Prize, by itself, doesn’t trigger Polarity Attraction.
While some of these things certainly can and do trigger attraction, they don’t trigger Polarity Attraction.
What Yin & Yang Reveal About Polarity Attraction:
I’m sure you’ve seen the Chinese Yin-Yang symbol before:
The symbol depicts two polarities in nature: Yin and Yang.
In Taoist thought, Yin represents a Feminine Polarity and Yang represents a Masculine Polarity.
When these two polarities align, they attract each other like magnets.
In male-female human courtship, when the Masculine and Feminine polarities correctly align, women feel Polarity Attraction.
Sadly, most men reverse the polarities by projecting a Feminine Polarity. This throws women into a Masculine Polarity.
And guess what?
Women End Up Triggering Polarity Attraction In These Men Instead Of The Other Way Around…
I want you to answer a few of the questions I asked you earlier again and I want you to be brutally honest…
Have you ever been scared to approach or get physical with a hot woman?
Have you ever felt a female was out of your league?
Have you ever found yourself racking your brain trying to come up with ways to make a girl like you?
Have you ever felt inadequate or angry because a woman rejected you?
Have you ever gotten jealous that a girl liked your friend but not you?
Have you ever found yourself obsessing over a woman who saw you only as a friend?
All of these things are symptoms of you reversing the polarities and the woman triggering Polarity Attraction inside you.
When You Project A Masculine Polarity, You Put The Woman In A Feminine Polarity, Pull Her Into Your Orbit, & Trigger Polarity Attraction In Her…
What does Polarity Attraction do to a woman?
It turns you into her sole source of validation & compels her to want nothing more than to please you.
Just Imagine If You Could Trigger Polarity Attraction In Your Perfect Woman, Compelling Her To Want Nothing More Than To Please You - And Only You…
If You Want To Trigger Polarity Attraction In Women You Need To:
Develop A Strong Masculine Polarity.
Gain Control Over Your Ego
Get out of your head and recognize attraction signals that tell you exactly what to do to get the women you desire.
If you fail to do these three crucial steps, you will never trigger Polarity Attraction in women.
Until you master these three steps, you’ll continue to live in a world where the game is rigged and the best looking guys get all the girls.
If You Do These Three Crucial Steps, You’ll Arouse Feelings In Her That Go Much Deeper Than The Type Of Attraction She Gets From Looks, Money, Humor, Or Intelligence…
… You’ll leave her other suitors dumbfounded and seething with jealousy. They’ll ask her, “What does he have that I don’t.”
Each of their complaints will push her further away from them and closer to you.
My Course Gives You The Tools To Master These Three Crucial Steps, So You Too Can Trigger Polarity Attraction In The Women You Desire…
Here’s A Sneak Peek At What You’ll Learn Inside The Masculine Polarity Audio Course….
How To Control Your Ego…
We’ve learned so far…
When most men like a girl, they orbit her by catering to her needs and showing off their most impressive qualities to the best of their ability.
But that’s not all…
Sometimes their fear of rejection and embarrassment prevents them from talking to or making a move on her.
They struggle to think of the right thing to say and do.
These Are All Symptoms Of Being Stuck In A Feminine Polarity…
Where does it stem from?
This devious little bastard controls them:
Ego defines itself in relation to women.
In other words…
Your Ego’s Self-Worth Hinges On Being Liked By Women…
If you spot a woman you’d like to meet but your ego interrupts you with, “I don’t feel like approaching that hottie right now,” “That girl looks totally bitchy,” or “She’d never go for me.”
And don’t approach her.
What are you doing by not approaching her?
You’re protecting your ego from getting hurt.
If you feel angry, jealous, or inadequate because she gives your friend more attention than you, what are you doing?
Enabling your ego.
If you get upset or think that you’re lacking something because a woman isn’t attracted to you and goes for another man, what are you doing?
Enabling that little bastard.
If you give into your need for a woman to see you as a hilarious, interesting, sexy and all around awesome guy by trying to impress her, feigning interest in things you don’t care about, and putting her desires above your own, what are you doing?
If you lash out at a woman for saying, “I’m not interested,” followed by a hint of pride that you put her in her place, what are you doing?
Enabling your ego. Feeding it. And rewarding it for its bad behavior.
We Can Liken The Sick, Codependent Relationship Most Men Have With Their Ego To A Battered Woman Sticking Up For Her Man…
Most men won’t cop to their ego controlling them…
They’ll tell you - and probably themselves as well - “Nah, man. I’m secure with myself and confident. I’m not attached to my ego. I could give two shits what women think about me.”
Up… there goes their ego again. Controlling them.
I’m willing to bet, at least to some degree…
Your Ego Controls You…
Accepting your ego and recognizing when it’s trying to make you its bitch is the first step to…
Putting An End To Your Ego Controlling You…
If you don’t…
Every time your ego chimes in, it will turn the woman in front of you into your sole source of validation, push you into a Feminine Polarity, pull her into a Masculine Polarity and prevent you from triggering Polarity Attraction.
Although you cannot get rid of your ego - it’s like a parasitic twin attached to you for life - there’s good news…
You don’t have to identify with it.
Inside Masculine Polarity You’ll Learn To Recognize When Your Ego’s Trying To Control You & Develop The Skills To Put That Little Bitch In His Place…
When you do this, approach anxiety goes away, worrying about girls liking you disappears, insecurities evaporate, needy behavior goes bye-bye, and your days stuck in a Feminine Polarity will be long gone.
How Good Will You Feel When You Have Complete Freedom From All Of Your Insecurities?
Here’s A Small Peek At The Skills You’ll Develop For Controlling Your Ego…
Why men aren’t aware that their ego controls most of what they think, say, and do. (Hint: Most of this happens on a subconscious level.)
An almost unknown technique that forces to admit that you’ve been enabling, protecting, and letting your ego control you. (Owning up to this doesn’t make you less of a man but gives you complete control over your ego.)
How to destroy your need for external validation and prevent your self-worth from hinging on whether or not a woman likes you.
The deep psychology behind why your ego will throw you into a Feminine Polarity every time.
Why your ego causes women to lie to you and how it can cause them to cheat on you as well. (and the secret to preventing this from ever happening again.)
An exercise that exposes all of your ego’s crazy thoughts and nonsensical complaining. (I was horrified the first dozen times I did this exercise and I’m sure you’ll be as well. But knowing what your ego’s up to is a crucial step to controlling it.)
How to interrupt your ego’s crazy bitching and put that little bastard in its place.
An exercise that tracks every time your ego prevents you from talking to or pursuing a woman over the course of a day, night, or week and develops your ability to put a stop to this. (Most of us protect and enable our ego by lying to ourselves with things like, “I did really good last night” or “I didn’t talk to that many girls because the venue didn’t have any hotties.” We selectively forget the times our ego prevented us from approaching. When you start tracking each time your ego prevents you from talking to a woman, you won’t be happy. But the second part of the exercise teaches you how to stop protecting and enabling your ego, so at any moment you can pursue the women you want.)
More exercises for tracking and recognizing when your ego’s acting up and correcting each of these inappropriate episodes.
Truckloads of secrets and exercises for ridding yourself for good of approach anxiety and fear of making a move on a woman.
Why and how the ego hides your authentic desires from you… and the secret that prevents the ego from doing this.
An exercise that crushes your ego’s subconscious control over you, allows your authentic desires to shine forth, and gives you the power to approach and make a move on the women you want without a smidgen of anxiety.
How to put the kibosh on your ego feeding you misinformation. (Sometimes your ego will tell you the wrong things to do with a woman and sabotage attraction. This exercise puts an end to that for good.)
How a simple shift in perception forces you to stop identifying with your ego.
Why most of the nice things you do for women - especially ones you’ve just met - stem from your ego. And how to stop this vicious cycle.
How the ego creates unnecessary barriers to get past with a woman and the secret to prevening your ego from doing this to you.
How the ego prevents you from getting sexual with a woman and the trick to making that little bastard shut the F up.
Why your ego puts you in the frame of trying to win women over and how to stop this from happening. (Even if you’re trying to acting like the Prize, if your ego hinges on her reaction to you, you’ll slide right back into the frame of trying to win her over.)
How to stop feeding your ego’s insecurities about your looks, job, smarts, humor… and so on. (This secret is a bit counter-intuitive. But once you master it, your insecurities will go bye-bye for good.)
And many many more secrets for letting go of your ego.
“How Will You Act Differently Around Women When You Finally Take Control Of Your Ego & Annihilate Every Last One Of Your Fears, Insecurities, & Needy Behaviors?
Secrets That Push You Outside Your Head & Make You Recognize Attraction Signals Other Men Will Never See That Reveal Exactly How To Get The Girl…
When your ego controls you, it pulls you inside your head and hems in your perception.
And guess what?
When You’re Stuck In Your Head, Your Chances Of Attracting A Woman Are On Par With A Blind Batter Hitting A Ball…
In other words, when you cannot see the situation you’re in with a woman clearly, you have to make shot-in-the-dark guesses about what to say and do - guesses that are almost always wrong.
Most men know this and many remedy it in one of two ways…
One, they numb their ego and escape the confines of their own head by excessively drinking.
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This allows them to approach women and act bold and free spirited around them.
But at what cost?
While alcohol numbs their ego and allows them to get outside of their head, it dulls down their perception of what’s going on. They end up acting mindless, instead of mindful.
Acting Mindless Around Women Isn’t The Solution To Getting Outside Of Your Head…
The second way that guys attempt to get out of their head is by using memorizing material on women.
Usually they hear a guy at a bar use a line on a woman that gets a great reaction.
They watch or read about some great routine for getting women in bed on the internet.
They memorize it and start using it on women.
If they’re a bit more advanced, they’ll, almost like a comedian, write their own material.
In the beginning, they feel they’re getting great reactions from women.
But over time, something starts to happen…
The memorized pickup line or canned routine doesn’t seem to work anymore.
So what do they do?
They get new canned material to use on women, their excitement returns, they think they’re getting good results with women again… and the vicious cycle continues.
Like a new shirt, the novelty of the canned material gives them false confidence but wears thin after a while.
And something worse happens…
Over The Long Haul, Memorized Pickup Lines & Canned Routines Make You Socially Dumber, Weirder, & Less Aware Of What’s Going On Around You…
Canned material is a lot like GPS. If you’re directionally challenged, GPS is a godsend.
But what starts to happen over time?
You begin to rely on it. Your sensitivity to your environment deadens. You lose awareness and orientation of where you are and where you’re going.
Relying On Canned Material Deadens Your Sensitivity To Your Environment & The Attraction Signals Women Transmit…
If you ask a guy who’s genuinely good with women about canned material, he’ll probably say, “Man, that’s lame. Use the situation.”
But here’s the problem…
That’s all he tells you.
When most men hear this….
They End Up Racking Their Brain, Trying To Think Of Something In Their Environment To Comment On…
That’s exactly what you don’t want to do: go back inside your head and think.
When You’re In The Moment, Instead Of Thinking Of What To Say Or Relying On Canned Pickup Lines, A Woman’s Attraction Signals Show You Exactly How To Get her…
I’ve spent years studying a branch of philosophy called “Phenomenology” - specifically Martin Heidegger and Maurice Merleau-Ponty.
One big take away I got from their work is this: when we’re at our best, we’re completely absorbed in the moment, mindful of what’s going on around us, and don’t think but see what to do.
Some People Refer To This Experience As Being In Flow.
We’ve all had it before. But few people know how to access it. For most people, it just kind of happens accidentally.
I didn’t want to settle for the occasional flow experience. I wanted access to it 24-7.
So after years of research and experimentation…
I’ve Come Up With A System That Keeps You In Flow Develops Your Intuitive Skill At Recognizing A Woman’s Attraction Signals That Show You Exactly How To Get Her…
Remember: because most men are tethered to their ego and stuck inside their head, they’re blind to these signals.
How do you cultivate this skill?
By controlling your ego, staying outside your head, and being present to the moment.
By honing your sensitivity to a woman’s attraction signals through developing three modes of external perception: Physis, Poiesis, and Meta-Poiesis.
By allowing these attraction signals to show you what to do to get her.
By taking risks. (We will talk more about this shortly)
Inside Masculine Polarity You’ll Develop The Intuitive Skill To Pick Up On A Woman’s Attraction Signals And Allow Those Signals To Show You Step-By-Step How To Get The Girl…
That means no more pickup lines or racking your brain about how to approach her.
As Soon As You Spot A Woman You’d Like To Meet, You’ll Instantly See The Right Way To Approach Her…
That means no more having awkward conversations with women, no more being tongue-tied, and no more relying on memorized conversational gambits that don’t fit the situation.
Attraction Signals & Environmental Cues Will Show You What To Do & Say To Get Her…
And there’s more…
Hands Down, This Is The Most Powerful System For Vibing With Women…
The system rewires your brain to make connections between relevant things in the situation your in with the woman.
These connections solicit a specific action from you.
From your words and actions, the mirror neurons in her brain pick up on the pattern in which you’re making these connections.
This Forces Her To See The World Similarly To You…
The two of you start noticing and laughing at the same things in your environment. You guys start thinking the same thoughts.
In other words, you’ve pulled her into your vibe.
When You First Start Developing Your Intuitive Skill, You’ll Notice Attraction Signals Trying To Show You How To Get The Girl…
But you’ll probably resist.
You’ll feel the urge to stay within your comfort zone and fall back on your default, auto-pilot spiel. Or use a canned pickup line. Or, even worse, recede back into your head and think about what to say and do.
I get it.
What’s Within Our Comfort Zone Always Feels Like The Right Thing To Do - Even If It Rarely Works.
Us Human Are Creatures Of Habit.
Don’t do this.
It’s imperative that you resist this temptation, step outside your comfort zone, trust what these